Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Day 37 - LA: Afternoon Visit & Roomie Reunion!

Day 37 = June 15

Another similar morning. While Simona & Amos were out doing errands, I ran. Showered etc.

Later, Simona & Amos and I sat and talked with Stacey after Ernesto went to work. They haven't seen each other for a long time. Well, I guess Amos did a little more of the sleeping. At some point he just got up and flopped himself on the bed in the bedroom. Just plumb wore out! It was a blessing as Simona doesn't get too much kid-free adult time.







































































(The obligatory pregnancy pic!)











Then, for dinner, Stacey had organized a reunion of the roomies! There were 4 of us present in LA on this occasion (I think 7 former roomies reuned last time?) We met at Aroma Cafe.

Last time she had visited, she saw this store window next door that reminded her of me. I like...



















We also got a kick out of the message over the door -



















Stacey is my hair mentor. Can you see why?
























This is the front of the cafe.



















& this is just my love affair w/Stacey's hair, continued.

























And this is the back of the cafe, near the bookstore...



















Now for my favorite 500 roomie pix! (We got a bit carried away)

Elizabeth Carlson (in the baseball cap), Stacey Goyal (who you have met), Tammi Auerbach (shorter brown hair), and yours truly, in varying combinations... :)
















































































































































































I love these girls. :)

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Day 36 - LA: Day of Regrouping

Day 36 = June 14

Wake early.
Have breakfast w/the family.


(Ernesto, Simona & Amos - stolen from FB of course :) )




















Blog/hang out until the afternoon. There was some crazy mask fighting on the bed between the guys. Why do guys like this again??



















Nap - try to nap anyhow - to catch up from how late I got to sleep the night before. Loud mariachi music from a neighbor prevents this. So I put on my ipod to block it out. Unfortunately I can't sleep with words...I connect with them too much. And I hadn't really prepared any music w/out words for situations such as this. Hence, I just hung out half-consciously listening, and jotting down songs for playlists & such, for an hour and a half (the amt. of time less than 8 hours I'd slept). It was good.

Shower.
Blog.
Laundry.

Some friends came by with toy cars for Amos and we all had dinner together. Later, after they left, we all went to return a movie and pick up another from Redbox. But when we returned we were all too tired to stay up. It was a long full day, low key. Nice.

Day 35 - Goodbye San Fran! Hello LA!

Day 35 = June 13

Pix of cute things in my SF host home:
































(my mustachioed hostess Liz on right and left)

Breakfast was at Tartine w/Jason. He let me off on Sunday night as long as I had promised to have breakfast at Tartine. It is apparently not to be missed. He had taken Jon Tyson (pastor of the Trinity Grace Churches in NYC) there several times when he stayed w/him and Jon had taken dearly to their famous morning muffins which have orange marmalade in the middle but are made somewhat like cinammon buns. I must admit, they are pretty great. Sorry, I forgot to take any pics there. It was great to have had so much time to talk and hang with him. And kind of weird saying goodbye. I’m not likely to be back in San Fran very soon I don’t think, and it’s likely that whenever we see each other next we’ll be old & married. At least old! Haha. :)

Took my flight to LA and happily reunited with my friend Simona. She, her son Amos, and our friend Lena’s daughter Elizabeth, all came along to welcome me. We then drove into Silver Lake and picked up Tommy from the venue (The Satellite) for a short hang. Ended up going to Fatburger for a late lunch. You can imagine, from the name. Great, awful-for-you food. Mm-mm.

Dropped by Simona’s & met she & Ernesto’s awesome cat, Benjamin Button (female). She apparently looked very ugly and old when purchased, but connected best w/their son Amos. She is a total sweetheart. Tommy held her like a baby, as usual.

We dropped him back by the venue for load in & sound check and returned back to the apt. I napped and etc. and then met Ed Carey (pastor of Hope Int'l - the church which shares the building with Kairos which I helped start in 2002-2005 along w/Simona & many other friends) and drove over to The Satellite w/him.


(photo stolen from Facebook)








He's kinda like a Sean Connery character guy, I say. Tough and loving at the same time. You don't ever wanna be on his bad side, but you're super blessed if you're on his good side. :) When he took over Hope Int'l ten years ago or more, he was saving a dying church. It's about 70-80 yrs old now? Anyway, he came in and interviewed everyone to see what the problems were. Found out the choir was the stage of most of the divisions and took it out w/a sledge hammer in his first service. No kiddin'.

It's doing well now. Every day they get about 2 tons of leftover food from Trader Joe's delivered, which goes out to about 5 ministries, from one small room! They also have a recovery house for addicts there. When I walk in to the church, the steps are like a scene from the pool of Bethesda in the Bible. The poor, the halt, the lame, the blind... (I don't know what 'the halt' means, just have heard it a bunch - is that King James English??) It definitely gives the feeling that the kingdom of God is coming to earth. Anyhow, when the 60+ young folks from across the country came out (mostly from the VA Tech area) to start Kairos, he took a special shine to the raggedy bunch of us from MN (7 or 8 of us), as we seemed to be sort of afterthoughts to the group. So he was pretty excited to meet Tommy and come out & support. Yay!

We also met my friends Vinay & Stacey and my friend Shannon at the venue. Stacey was a roomie of mine in LA and one of the 8 or so folks from MN. She met Vinay in LA and they married in Vegas - everyone has to have one friend marry there, right? Shannon and Stacey and I were all assistant store managers at Spruce together in 2003, which was an environmentally friendly dry-cleaning chain starting up. ANYWAY. It was great to connect up together! Always is. Here's a pic of us (L to R - Shannon, Stacey, me):











So, the show! It rocked, as usual. I tried to soak it all in as it's my last FC show for a little while. Last night to see Tommy. Shannon, standing next to me, looked over and said, "They are really good." I said, "yeah, they better be! this is my 8th show in one month!" I forget how thankful I should be about that. Because I liked Tommy before I'd ever seen them play, before our trips mystically intertangled and all that. How awkward 'twould have been if I hadn't adored them!

































After the show, my friends needed to take off, but Tommy had introduced us all to a fan who I believe caught all 3 of the shows near/in LA - Angelia Jones. She drove me out to the Cafe 101 or whatever it is called, to have some late night snax w/the FC band & friends. This included some tuna melts & chocolat-y ice cream goodness if I remember correctly. Soo sooooooo tired tho'. Ach! It was nice to have some last last moments before Tommy shot off into the last leg of his trip, but wow, keeping eyes open was very hard. One last hug goodbye after, and Angelia drove me home. Goodbye FC crew! I'll not see my bonny boy after this for 10 long days, until I get home. We'll make it. Just sad to see him go.

Day 34 – San Francisco (continued)

Day 34 = June 12

About Jason. He was a worship pastor in New York City at Mosaic. I never saw him lead worship there, we just met when my friend Emily and I helped with some city-wide worship events. We sang, Jason guitared, and a bunch of other persons were involved as well. Now Emily is married and living in New Zealand, and Jason is an Arts Advocate (/Pastor) in San Fran, the absolute other side of the continent. He is as excited about SF as he was about Brooklyn, which makes his loyalties a little suspicious, but hey… he’s a person who loves his neighborhood, which can’t be said of everyone. Oh & also, having been dating Kristen, the love of his life, there, hasn’t hurt his love for the town either I should think. She was out of town, so I didn’t get to meet her, but I heard good things & saw some happy pix. :)

So, his new position is at IKON, a small new-ish church start-up that is only a year or two old and meets in the San Francisco Chronicle building. It has 2 services and I went to the later one, for obvious reasons (sleeping in J ). On my way I had some bus complications (I waited at 2 wrong bus stops before finding the correct one, because one street was split in two over a freeway which was a little confusing). No matter. But once I was on the ground, motoring my way as fast as my little legs could carry me over to the Chronicle building, a woman caught my eye. She was a slightly older African American woman, and she leaned out and said to me, “Where are you going?” I said, “5th & Mission!” (I don’t know why I’m so honest) She said, “You ever been to church?” Me: “That’s where I’m goin’!” She said, as I left her behind, “Well, it’s GREAT in here!” almost to herself and it sounded like she really meant it. The doors must have swung open around there and I think I heard some great gospel music pouring out. It made me wish I wasn’t in such a hurry and that I had 5 min. to peek in and see what was up. That was over at Taylor & Ellis for you San Franciscans. Check it out sometime! :)

I liked IKON. One of my favorite songs they did was “Your Love is Strong” by Jon Foreman of Switchfoot. After looking it up online, I think their version was even better than the original, but here ‘tis if you’d like to check it out.

After church, Olga – my poetry friend who I met thru Jason but hadn’t met before in person – and I went over to Blue Bottle for some coffee. Ok, just hot chocolate for me, but isn’t it beautiful?











One thing that is really interesting/unique about San Fran is their penchant for communal eating/drinking. They make maximum use of the small mileage of the city by installing long tables where everyone sits together. Blue Bottle for example:





















We had a great talk. Was really nice to have some time together in person! If you'd like to check out Olga's baby/project extraordinaire, Vetted Word, here's the place.

Then I jumped on a train to go up to Jason’s neighborhood. He showed me the apt. he shares w/some guys from IKON and I met the roomies briefly, and then we went out for more exploring. First on his list (tho’ he couldn’t drink coffee because of his sickness) was Four Barrell, because I just needed to see how great it was. Ta-dah! –











Actually I think Tommy would be more appreciative of this, as he likes quality coffee. I’m not a very coffee-ish person, but I do like cozy venues.

Next was a lookout I was too hungry/tired to go to the day before. The full view of a city is important to get. I like that too, but I was also distracted by the various lovers getting their photos taken in front of San Fran without being blown off the lookout.











The hill had a ginormous cancer ribbon on it. I guess they have something different up there every year.











Then I wanted to attend the Haight-Ashbury Street Fair. It was the longest looking for parking I’ve ever spent I think. After a loooooooooooong while, I just suggested that Jason drop me off and I’d make it back on my own. So he went home for a nap, and I ventured into crazy street-fair life alone.

I encountered a lot of pro-marijuana organizations, and little dogs in cute outfits, and lots of tie-dye, etc. etc. It was pretty nice be at on a sunny afternoon, and I bargained a street vendor down on a little tie-dyed baby onesie with a peace sign for my friend Simona’s upcoming baby Asher.



























After that, I consulted my notes and decided to save $2 by walking back to Fillmore instead of riding a bus. The nice thing about buses there – at least w/some of them! – is that they are connected to these lines that go over the road so if you need to go where they are going, you can kinda follow those and get where they’re going.















I then holed up in my host home, watched a movie I think, and took a nap. Jason checked in when he woke up from his but I said I was fine chilling for the eve. Later I went on over to The Grove and asked for my missing piece of pie which they apologized about and immediately delivered to me. I read for a while on my Kindle, and then I went walking up Fillmore. Up, and up and up to the view and down, down, down to the very sea (or about 50 feet away). I didn’t quite go up to it because there were no lights over the grass and I imagined it being full of high homeless people trying to sleep…and I also have a goal of not dying in any way my mother could say ‘I told you so’. I could see the search light spinning at Alcatraz in the distance. When I turned to go back, it was to a Great Effort that I returned. You walk down these hills at 45 degree angles, but getting back up them is another thing. It pretty much wipes you out.

Got back pretty late. Really wished I could have included these walks on my running blog, but alas it is only for running. Fell asleep immediately*.


* immediately usually means immediately after Tommy & I chat on the phone for a few min. every night...we are by no means very lucid and interesting in our late night goodnights and we both kind of hate the phone, but it's sweet nonetheless to hear each other's voices before 'signing out'. sorry if that is TMI, just thought it deserved a mention...)

Monday, June 20, 2011

50 Reasons I Like My Boyfriend (41-50)

























41. He has an embroidered piece of art from his grandma at his place, just like how my family has one from my great-grandma in their basement.

42. He comes up with brilliant analogies or diagrams at the drop of a hat.

43. He's a reader.

44. He gives people the benefit of the doubt, and a lot of grace.

45. He used to rock out for his stuffed animals as a kid.

46. He is an analog geek. Music people, you know what that means.

47. He has some cool tattoos – my favorite is the Morton salt umbrella girl on his left arm.

48. He is willing to walk out on faith – right now it means he is leaving his job of the last 3 years to travel and to launch his music ministry/consulting biz.

49. He is just off the wall funny, always makes me laugh.

50. He likes to sing death metal voices about soft things. Rah-rah-rah-rah – DAFF-o-dils. Rah-rah-rah-rah-pupp-ies!


* disclaimer on photos - I should mention I stole all the photos (I think all of them) for these posts from his FB photos so photo credit belongs to a # of disparate individuals. thank you to them!!

Day 33 - San Fran - The Tour Begins...

Day 33 = Jan 11

So I actually have one good friend in San Fran. Unfortunately he was pretty sick on Friday so he couldn't come to the FC show. His name is Jason Morrell. Here is a pic of him (stolen from his FB) at Four Barrell, his favorite coffee shop.

























He needed some time to work up to functional on Saturday, and I needed some time to catch up on my travel blog, so I took Liz's suggestion to catch a bite at The Grove and bring my computer. I was there for a few hours. It was excellent atmosphere and my tuna melt was awesome.




































Unfortunately, I ordered a pie that they forgot to give me, and I forgot to remind them as I was so deep in my blogging & people-watching etc. I remembered it after Jason picked me up. No worries, it comes into the story later.

We set out, & I sneakily take a photo of my driver (except I think he caught me :) )
























Our first stop is at the Palace of Fine Arts. It's pretty cool.




































We look over at the Golden Gate Bridge from near there, and then head on over ourselves.




































We can see Alcatraz from the bridge.



















Somewhere else we go there is a pool like at Caesarea made out of rocks...



















Golden Gate Park is immense. SF also has these cool tiny cars that they rent out...




































Here are the Painted Ladies that are famous houses (appear in opening credits of Full House etc.)



















...and here's some cool graffiti



















That's the speed tour! Thanks for riding the Jason Morrell Express! We stopped for dinner and then quickly faded. More to come on Day 34.